Friday, December 12, 2025

That Christmas Feeling

 I published this post 15 years ago, when Sarah was a kindergartner and Parker was, like I said, "resting snugly in Erika's womb" ... Tomorrow she graduates from college, and he is now a freshman in high school. They obviously know the truth about Santa, and, more importantly, the real reason for Christmas. Although my marriage did not survive to the present, the friendship between me and their mother has  ... I think I will grin every time I re-read this post, so I'm re-publishing it today as we all go barreling into the last fortnight of Advent: 



As long as I can remember, I have spent the Thanksgiving-through-New-Year’s season feeling buoyant and hopeful. On December mornings like today’s, when the temperatures are below freezing and the grass is coated with frost, I have always found it easy to catch the Christmas spirit.

But even for people like me, the appreciation we feel for this time of year is increased many times over when we become parents. Watching our children’s faces light up with wonder, we remember how we felt at this time of year when we were kids. Surely, even the most jaded adult must have fond recollections of Christmas Past and hope that today’s tykes are enjoying Christmas Present.


When Sarah was two, I am pretty sure she remembered Christmas from when she was one, but I know she remembered it when she was three. That was the year we got a flat tire while driving to the annual Christmas Eve party for my extended family. It was dark and cloudy and we were stranded for some time on a rural road -- a circumstance that would usually lead to bad moods and quick tempers. But when the lights of an airplane tracking through the clouds became visible, I pointed to them and told Sarah it was Santa’s sleigh. Her face immediately lit up. She pointed at the lights and wiggled and shrieked to Erika: “Mommy! Mommy! It’s Santa! It’s Santa!” And a potentially bad experience was transformed into a golden moment that will never be forgotten.

Exactly one year later, when she was four, getting her to go to bed on Christmas Eve proved next to impossible. For what seemed like hours, she kept getting up every few minutes and running into our room, laughing and jumping and swearing that through her window she had just seen Santa’s sleigh in the sky. Then she started saying that she thought she heard reindeer on the roof. And she kept getting up and making these claims over and over and over again…

When she was five, we took her to Disney World on December 23rd, and the Magic Kingdom was decked out in holiday splendor. After night fell, as we made our way down Main Street USA with Sarah on my shoulders, she broke into song and belted out “Rudolph the Red-Nosed Reindeer” and “We Wish You A Merry Christmas.” Then artificial snowflakes started to shower down, blown from the tops of the storefronts, and the day came to a picture-perfect end.


The next night saw more classic, Christmas Eve moments. Sarah claimed she saw Rudolph’s nose in the sky on our way home from the annual party. Before bed she made a trail of cookies in our driveway to lead the reindeer to our door. At the end was a marshmallow snowman cookie, along with a note on which she wrote: “Rudolph only.”

Finally, inside our home on her own small table by the tree, Sarah left milk and cookies, and an unfortunately broken candy cane, out for Santa. We disposed of the food and drink before she awoke, and Erika was sure to leave cookie crumbs on the plate next to the empty glass. Erika also composed a thank you note from Santa to Sarah. We had already turned this into a tradition, and Sarah reveled in it again.

Sarah is now six. For the third December in a row she is rising before the roosters every single morning, opening her Advent Box and finding where the Elf on the Shelf has moved to. She is smart as a whip and I did not expect her to still believe in Santa last year, but now it is a whole year later and she continues to believe.

We have always told her that Christmas is to commemorate the birth of Jesus, and is about giving rather than receiving, and she seems to get it. Two years ago, when we told her that after opening her gifts she had to choose one to give away to the poor, she countered by asking if she could give away ten of her old toys rather than one of her new ones.


When Sarah was born, we actually said that we would not even do the Santa thing, specifically to avoid the dreaded conversation in which we would have to admit (there’s no delicate way to put this) that we have been lying to her all these years. Then Christmas came and we did the Santa thing anyway, and although I have some reservations, I don’t have any regrets when I watch her enjoy herself. Her excitement heightens mine and Erika’s, and I am serene in my confidence that she will look back on these days with happiness. After all, one of my fondest memories of Christmas Past is of the year my parents broke the news to me that Santa is not real. The memory involves a chalkboard, but that is a story I will share another time, perhaps another year.

The bottom line is this: I love Christmas to begin with, but I love it even more because of my little girl. Erika and I can not wait to keep making new memories with her and her little sibling, who right now is resting snugly in Erika's womb.

Sunday, December 7, 2025

Never Forget

Today is the 84th anniversary of the attack on Pearl Harbor, so let us all pause and recall what happened eight decades ago.

The day after the bombing, President Franklin Delano Roosevelt addressed Congress on December 8, 1941, to request a formal declaration of war. His speech was simulcast to the country at large via the radio. In it, he said:

Yesterday, December 7th, 1941 – a date which will live in infamy – the United States of America was suddenly and deliberately attacked by naval and air forces of the Empire of Japan.

The United States was at peace with that nation, and, at the solicitation of Japan, was still in conversation with its government and its emperor looking toward the maintenance of peace in the Pacific. Indeed, one hour after Japanese air squadrons had commenced bombing in the American island of Oahu, the Japanese ambassador to the United States and his colleague delivered to our secretary of state a formal reply to a recent American message. While this reply stated that it seemed useless to continue the existing diplomatic negotiations, it contained no threat or hint of war or armed attack…

Yesterday the Japanese government also launched an attack against Malaya.

Last night Japanese forces attacked Hong Kong.

Last night Japanese forces attacked Guam.

Last night Japanese forces attacked the Philippine Islands.

Last night Japanese forces attacked Wake Island.

And this morning the Japanese attacked Midway Island…

Japan has, therefore, undertaken a surprise offensive extending throughout the Pacific area. The facts of yesterday and today speak for themselves…

Always will be remembered the character of this onslaught against us.

No matter how long it may take us to overcome this premeditated invasion, the American people in their righteous might will win through to absolute victory…

With confidence in our armed forces – with the unbounding determination of our people – we will gain the inevitable triumph – so help us God.



Pearl Harbor was attacked because it was where the U.S. Navy’s Pacific fleet was headquartered. The bombing, which killed more than 2,400 people, began shortly before 8:00 on a Sunday morning.

Five of our eight battleships were sunk, the other three were badly damaged, and multiple other naval vessels were destroyed.

The majority of the American war planes based in Hawaii were destroyed as they sat on the ground.

In addition, most of the American air forces based in the Philippines were destroyed during the nighttime attack on that nation, which FDR also mentioned in his speech.

By crippling our Pacific defenses, the December 7th attack left us extremely vulnerable in the face of an aggressive enemy to our West – an enemy that had signaled its intent to rule the entire Pacific basin by subjugating other nations to its will.

This came at a time when we had not responded to the fact that Nazi Germany to our East had already declared war against us, had already brought most of Europe under its thumb, and had signaled its own intention to rule the world by way of an Aryan resurrection of the old Roman Empire.

Such circumstances would have spelled doom for the vast majority of countries throughout the course of history. With their foundations based on the accidents of ethnicity and geography, most countries would have simply surrendered; or, in a distinction without a difference, entered into “peace” negotiations under which they would have to accept the aggressor’s terms and after which the lives of their citizens would most certainly change for the worst.

But the United States is a nation based on ideals. Our foundation springs from the knowledge that there are things greater than us, things which are greater than the transient circumstances which exist on any given day. We have always found strength in the conviction that our nation exists to support and advance those greater things, to the benefit of people all over the world, and this sets the United States apart from all other nations in all other times.

Taking heed from FDR’s appeal to “righteous might,” reflecting what Abraham Lincoln earlier referred to as the “faith that right makes might,” the American people of 1941 summoned the invincible courage to rebuild and fight at the same time they were under fearsome siege. They did this despite the fact they were still suffering through an unprecedented economic depression that had started more than a decade before.

Let us pray that those qualities – that will to power and that unwavering belief in the sanctity of human freedom – have not been lost as new generations of Americans take the baton from the great ones which came before. For as has been said, those who forget the past will be forced to repeat it.

It would be shameful if history were to record that we squandered what was handed down to us by people like Larry Perry, and as a result we failed to transfer freedom’s blessings to our descendants... And since you probably don't know who Larry Perry is, I recommend you look here and find out. 

Saturday, December 6, 2025

The Real Saint Nick

History provides many examples of actual people who have, over time, become so melded into the popular imagination that we tend to forget they were real. Saint Nicholas is one of them.

Born sometime around 280 A.D. in the town of Patara, in what was then part of Greece but is now part of Turkey, Nicholas was the son of wealthy parents who died when he was young. Having been raised as a devoted Christian, he spent his life using his inheritance to help those in need, and in addition to his charity he became known for harboring great concern for children and sailors.

Down through history, one particular story about his generosity has persisted. In those days, women whose families could not pay a dowry were more likely to die as spinsters than to get married. It is said that when Nicholas learned of a poor man who was worried about his daughters’ fates because he lacked money for their dowries, Nicholas surreptitiously tossed gold into the man’s home through an open window, and the gold landed in stockings that were drying by the fire. Much later, this inspired the modern tradition of hanging stockings by the chimney to receive gifts from Santa on Christmas Eve.

Nicholas became Bishop of Myra, a city on the Myros River near the Mediterranean coast of what is now southern Turkey. He was imprisoned during the anti-Christian persecutions carried out by the Roman Emperor Diocletian.

He was present at the Council of Nicaea (whose 1,700th anniversary was this summer) at which Christianity's fate hung in the balance due to the metastasizing belief in Arianism within the Church. It was at this council that Arianism was officially determined to be a heresy, and at which Nicholas famously confronted Arius face to face.

Nicholas is considered a saint by both the Catholic and Orthodox churches. Based on the stories of his life, he is deemed to be a patron saint of orphans, archers, sailors, travelers, repentant thieves, the wrongly imprisoned, and many other categories of people. Churches were constructed in his honor as early as the sixth century A.D.

Today marks the 1,682nd anniversary of his passing, for Nicholas died on December 6, 343. His remains were buried in the cathedral church in Myra, which became a pilgrimage site. In 1087 many of them were moved to Bari, a seaside city in southeastern Italy, where they are still housed in this cathedral. Others are dispersed as relics in places throughout the world.

For generations now, kids and adults alike have used the names Santa Claus, Saint Nicholas, and Saint Nick interchangeably, without giving it a second thought. But there was an actual Saint Nicholas, a decent man who is obscured by commercial renderings of Christmas. We should not allow that fact to be forgotten.

Note: The photo at the beginning of this post is of a window depicting Nicholas, taken this May at Saint Nicholas Greek Orthodox Cathedral in Tarpon Springs, Florida. This cathedral contains one his relics - specifically, a tiny bone fragment displayed in a glass reliquary at the front of the nave.

Tuesday, November 11, 2025

et ceteras

107 years ago today, the Armistice of Compiegne effectively brought World War I to an end, in recognition of which November 11th came to be an annual celebration known as Armistice Day in many countries.

71 years ago - nearly a decade after a whole 'nother world war was fought and brought to its conclusion - November 11th came to be recognized in this country as Veterans Day.

17 years ago today, I published this short post about Veterans Day. Looking back at it now, one particular line stands out: "Within a generation, military service went from being a duty that was performed by most American men to being one that was performed by a small minority. In turn, the country has become one where a shrinking percentage of the population puts their lives on the line to defend the rights of an increasingly unappreciative majority." That's even more true today, and I'm tempted to tack on a few more adjectives alongside "unappreciative" - but I shall refrain and instead simply offer my gratitude, for whatever that is worth.

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Here is an excellent (but not short) video by Melissa Dougherty, one of my favorite YouTubers. Everybody who values freedom and civility, regardless of whether they're a conservative or liberal, atheist or theist, etc., will hear something in it that they need to hear.

This is a good video by a Catholic regarding last week's release of Mater Populi fidelis, and this is a good one by a Protestant regarding the same.

If you're wondering what Mater Populi fidelis even is, you can read it for yourself here. But if you're short on time, which you probably are, the CliffsNotes version is that it's a Vatican document which affirms veneration of Mary while discouraging the use of certain titles to refer to her.

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My most recent post said some good things about Charlie Kirk and heaped a lot of criticism on the institutional Left. It also heaved criticism at the institutional Right, presented largely as a warning to fellow conservatives that we must police our own side of the aisle if we intend to keep it from descending to the same level of madness that attacks our country from the other side.

Based on feedback I've received, I know some conservatives acknowledge the troubles that are manifesting on the Right, and I know some liberals are unaware I even criticized the Right because they stopped reading. It is what it is.

Anyway, I bring that post up again to say that the biggest problem currently facing the conservative movement is one I didn't even mention: The fact that some camels have put their noses into our tent and started blowing them in an effort to infect our ranks with the world's oldest and most persistent bigotry, namely anti-Semitism.

They have attempted, with an alarming amount of success, to gain sway on the Right by gaining platforms in media and in respected institutions such as the Heritage Foundation. Predictably, they mask their prejudice by claiming only to be criticizing "the government of Israel," or "the Netanyahu administration," or "Zionists." Those claims are false, and I say that categorically.

Some who make those claims or enable others to make them may well believe the claims, but believing them does not make them true. In a world where the Holocaust began less than a century ago, and in a country where one of the two major political parties has aligned itself with forces that would welcome another Holocaust, we must not allow the other major political party to fall under that same ancient spell.

I cannot do the topic justice in this lone blog post, so I won't give it the short shrift by trying to. But I will say that the threat of anti-Semitism gaining ground on the Right, under the faux respectability of "just asking questions" or "having a big tent," is an existential one that needs to be treated as such. I am very happy the Heritage Foundation's staff has pushed back against its recent complicity and thrown its leaders off-balance, but the fight has just begun.

Wednesday, October 29, 2025

Crossroads



It has now been 49 days since the assassination of Charlie Kirk, an act of evil - make no mistake, it was evil - woven of so many threads that writing about it feels daunting.

The day it happened, the only words I wrote were the following, posted on Facebook: Since we do not yet know anything about the shooter, I will withhold commentary for now other than to say what should be obvious: Murder is bad. Prayers for his widow and two kids.

I do not blog nearly as much as I once did, and the focus of this blog isn't quite what it once was, but after (reaches for smelling salts) 17 years opining in this space, I cannot allow this assassination to go unremarked about here. After all, my descendants might one day read this blog after I have died and am no longer here to speak, and I don't want to leave the impression that I had no particular thoughts about an event that might prove to be a turning point (no pun intended) in Western civilization, so here I am.

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A major difficulty in commenting about Kirk's killing is deciding what angle to approach it from.

One could write a whole piece dwelling on the question of whether it deserves to be called an assassination (it does) or "simply" a murder like so many others.

Or a whole piece dwelling on whether Tyler Robinson acted alone.

Or, in a JFK'esque approach, asking if Robinson was just a patsy for someone else. 

Or in a related approach, asking if Robinson did it at all, or was instead expertly framed.

Or flat-out saying he was either innocent or a conspirator, then speculating about what nefarious forces  pulled the strings (George Soros acting as puppeteer to stoke social chaos? Donald Trump acting as puppeteer to justify crackdowns against political foes? Whatever floats your boat, let your freak flag fly!).

One could gloss right over the killing and dwell instead on the question of whether Kirk was a good person (he was) or a hateful one (an adjective I've seen deployed repeatedly on social media).

Or, one could write a whole piece dwelling on how Kirk's young daughters have had their lives thrown into the kind of terror and turmoil no child should have to experience (on a human level, this is what's most important).

In the grand scheme, however, Kirk's assassination was intended to roil the waters with social impacts in the hope that they will flow downstream and have political impacts. And as it turns out, social and political effects have been by far the most observable over the last 49 days, so it is there to which I turn.

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Charles James Kirk was Christian and conservative, but his most galvanizing trait was neither his Christianity nor his conservatism: It was his two-fold ability to persuasively articulate principles and address counter-arguments without chasing red herrings down rabbit holes.

Kirk encouraged critical thought and used it to advance Christianity. He also used it to advance conservative political ideas, which are not always or automatically Christian, but do have more overlap with Christianity than liberal political ideas do.

Most galling to those who disagreed with him, Kirk enjoyed unprecedented success bringing young people into the conservative fold and inspiring already conservative young people to speak their minds in the face of slander. He was so good at this that he was loathed by the Left. Not begrudged, but loathed.

Leftists - not to be confused with mere liberals - would have scorned Kirk even if he was unsuccessful at debating them, but he was successful, and exceptionally so, and that was something they could not tolerate in the face of their ongoing inability to score a win. Thus Leftists hated him viscerally, and personally, and a critical mass of the Left came to genuinely want him dead.

When news of the killing first broke that Wednesday afternoon, my immediate thought was: They couldn't beat him, so they killed him. And I was not alone, for I would later learn that even Chris Alar, who is almost invincibly joyful by nature, uttered those exact words from his Stockbridge, Massachusetts pulpit.

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But that We-They-Us-Them reflex is not healthy, is it? Especially when Kirk's raison d'etre was to talk out differences and understand them rather than come to blows over them. And even more so when there remain many gaps in what we know about September 10th.

Yes, I do think it is unhealthy. Sadly, however, the hive mind of the Left - and to repeat myself, Leftists are not to be confused with mere liberals - shows that normal people may no longer have a choice no matter where they fall on the political spectrum. The Left desires for those who don't genuflect to its dogmas to remain silent, and those who openly dispute its dogmas to be silenced.

Why do I say this? Well, much as I generally oppose philosophizing by meme, a particular one whose circulation skyrocketed after Kirk's killing - we'll call it the "We Are Not the Same Meme" - has proved to be appropriate as the intervening month and a half has unfolded. It shows images of the praying and candlelight vigils that proliferated in response to Kirk's killing, juxtaposed with images of the rioting and destruction that always seem to sprout up in response to every liberal cause celebre; then it supplies the five-word phrase "We Are Not the Same."

Is that meme provocative? Yes. 

But is it true? Judging by what I've witnessed in public and private and quasi-private forums over the last month, it is.

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Violence is a human trait, not a political one, and neither side of the aisle has a monopoly on it. But the Left's tendency to openly excuse and even romanticize violence is so pervasive that it bears full responsibility for things having reached fever pitch at this moment in American history.

The American Left's infatuation with orchestrators of political murder goes way back regardless of whether we're talking about individuals (Vladimir Lenin, Che Guevara, Fidel Castro) or organizations (PLO, Weather Underground, Black Panthers). I cannot think of a single corollary in which the American Right has ever excused, much less celebrated, any similarly violent figure.

Looking back over just the past half-decade, it was Senator Chuck Schumer who threatened Supreme Court justices by name; the Left that did not rebuke him but instead engaged in Schumersplaining; a leftist (Nicholas Roske) who traveled cross-country and tried to assassinate one of those justices, then was granted a breathtakingly light sentence by Judge Deborah L. Boardman partly because of his announcement that he wants to be a she; the Left that neglected to condemn Roske; the Left that neglected to condemn either of the attempted assassinations of Donald Trump; a leftist (or so I deduce from him shouting "Free Palestine") who murdered two young Israeli Embassy staffers on the streets of D.C.; the Left that neglected to condemn him; another leftist (or so I deduce from his professed hatred of conservative Supreme Court justices as well as Jews, Catholics, and ICE) who was arrested with more than 200 explosives outside a D.C. cathedral before a Mass that the justices were expected to attend; the Left that neglected to condemn him; liberals who creepily swooned over Luigi Mangione while the Left encouraged their swooning and neglected to condemn his murder of Brian Thompson; Virginia Delegate Jay Jones who openly fantasized about killing a Republican and about the killing of the Republican's children; that same Jay Jones who is now running to be Virginia's attorney general, and did not lose a single endorsement after his fantasies became public; and, deja vu alert, it is the Left that neglected to condemn him.

The chilling thing is not the fact of violence being committed, for that is a story old as time. The chilling things are: 1] the complete failure of one side's leadership to speak out against the violence being committed in its name, and 2] that side's concomitant failure to discourage its rank-and-file from accepting said violence. As long as those failures hold, things will continue to devolve and it will become harder for - here comes that adjective again - normal people on the other side to dissuade its lunatic fringe from responding in kind.

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That other side is of course the right wing of America's political spectrum. Those of us who are on that side have long taken comfort in the thought that proactive violence is anathema to us but not anathema to the Left. That thought is comforting, in large part, because factual events bear it out and give us reason to believe it is true.

But deep down, we know Solzhenitsyn was right when he wrote: "The line separating good and evil passes not through states, nor between classes, nor between political parties either - but right through every human heart - and through all human hearts. This line shifts. Inside us, it oscillates with the years."

And because we know he was right, we also know (but rarely say) that "our" crazies are unlikely to be kept at bay forever. The odds say at least one of them will spill innocent blood and claim to have done it on our behalf.

When that happens, we can protest all we want that for every act of political violence by a putative conservative there are fifty acts of political violence by a putative liberal. And we can protest all we want about the mainstream media imputing a killer's sin to conservatism despite having never imputed a killer's sin to liberalism. But such protests will not matter.

What will matter is whether we hold right-wing crazies just as accountable as we hold left-wing crazies, and, perhaps more importantly, that the American Center sees us do it and trusts us to do it. Which brings us to a classic chicken-or-egg conundrum: Do they need to see our behavior first in order to trust us, or do they need to trust us first in order to see our behavior?

It's probably some of both, which brings us head-on into an uncomfortable question too few of us are asking: What should we do now that a president who has done things we admire - e.g., appoint great justices to the courts, castrate Iran's nuclear weapons program, reverse the tide of illegal immigration, enable the defeat of Hamas - is using our military to kill unknown human beings by destroying private, manned, non-combatant boats in the waters off South and Central America, without proffering the slightest evidence that any of them were being used to do anything wrong?

Donald Trump's boat-sinking spree began 57 days ago. Charlie Kirk was assassinated 49 days ago, at which time nobody knew the boat-sinking would become a spree rather than a one-off. Kirk has not been here to see what's become of it.

As of three days ago, 43 people had been killed in the spree. As of right now, the number of dead has grown to 57. Looking at these attacks with a legal eye, they are unconstitutional, and looking at them with a moral eye, they are unconscionable.

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I'm no military expert, but it's a safe bet our armed forces should be focused on real enemies in places like the western Pacific and Middle East, not small-fry boats that are not even alleged to be en route to our shores.

What would we be saying if Bill Clinton, Barack Obama, or Joe Biden was ordering strikes like these? Especially at a time like this when China is ascendant, growing its military by leaps and bounds, and scheming to dominate? The question answers itself.

Broadly speaking, conservatives usually hold the high ground because we have legitimately earned it over the long course of many years. But we can lose it very quickly if we don't keep doing what it took to earn it in the first place - and lose it we will if we cannot stir ourselves to call a spade a spade when there happens to be an R after his name.

Neglecting to condemn the contemptible has always been a quality of the Left. It is within the Right's power to make sure it remains a quality of only the Left, and I wish I was confident in the Right's ability to pull that off, but I have to be honest: The crickets I'm hearing about these so-called "drug boats" give me no confidence at all.

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I appreciated Charlie Kirk, but at 23 years his senior, I was not influenced by him. The youth, however, were, and what influenced them was his willingness to speak truth no matter how discomforting it felt.

We owe it to them, and our principles, to keep that legacy alive by not being mute about this slaughter on the seas. For the cock will eventually crow, and if we are silent all the way up to then, the youth will take note of our silence and judge us accordingly.

Silence might very well result in us squandering all those once unthinkable gains Kirk helped us achieve.


Wednesday, August 27, 2025

Marian Musings, Part VII


An iconostasis in a Greek Orthodox cathedral in Florida has a small adornment symbolizing the Trinity. It consists of a front-profile dove in flight (signifying the Holy Spirit) with suffering Jesus over its left wing and a downward-reaching hand (signifying the Father) over its right. The hand's index finger is extended to touch the head of the dove.

A more-common representation shows a dove (again, Holy Spirit) in the lower right corner and lamb (Jesus) in the lower left with a hand raised in benediction (Father) centered above them. Often, as in the linked example, this triangular arrangement is accentuated by an upside-down triangle in the background to evoke the Star of David.

I am not aware of any representation of the Trinity that contains a figure of human womanhood. Some may wave that off by observing that God is neither man nor woman and thus there is no reason for us to focus on imagery, or by pointing out that there is something suggestively feminine about a dove, but let's be honest: Such hand-waving falls a bit short when contemplating the creator of all.

God crafted humanity in his "likeness" (Genesis 5:1), and in so doing created "male and female" (5:2) to complement one another. Broadly speaking, just as humanity cannot biologically survive without male and female acting reciprocally, so it cannot flourish when the masculine and feminine regard themselves as separate wholes rather than complementary halves. So, with God having chosen to take human form as "the man Christ Jesus" (1 Timothy 2:5, emphasis added) it is reasonable to wonder what gives... and this is where the significance of Mother Mary comes to the fore.

Describing "a magnificent statue of Our Lady" in this D.C. cathedral, Catholic author Carrie Gress writes: "She is not standing serenely; instead, her posture is one of action frozen in time - it captures the very act of her bridging the gap between heaven and earth. She is bending down, her right hand extended as if she is reaching for humanity, while her left hand is reaching up to heaven...it concretizes what Mary wants to do for us every second of the day - connect us with God, whether it is through our prayers, our sacrifices, or even our brokenness."

Her participatory role in salvation should not be underestimated by those of us who hail from Protestant or non-denominational precincts. Like I already detailed in the first four posts of this series, Scripture itself presents Jesus and Mary as a kind of package deal without blurring the line between his divinity and her lack of it, thus the early Church was right to emphasize her venerability, and I believe we children of the Reformation are wrong to de-emphasize it.

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Many of Christianity's modern critics accuse it of denigrating or suppressing women, although, to the contrary, it does the exact opposite. That so-called feminists refuse to acknowledge this is, shall we say, curious.

From the dawn of time, around the globe and across cultures, women were for all practical purposes treated as subordinate and/or inferior to men. Even in the small number of matrilineal societies that based clan membership on the mother's lineage, men were the chiefs and rulers; and pantheistic faiths, which believed in actual goddesses, viewed them as creatures replete with human flaws, not creators replete with true love.

When Jesus arrived on the dusty road between Galilee and Jerusalem, he overturned the apple cart by accepting women as disciples and treating them no differently that he treated men. He engaged with the woman at the well, intervened for the adulteress, and publicly praised the faith of the woman with the hemorrhage. After the Resurrection he chose to appear to women before he appeared to men, and after the Ascension women were present when the Holy Spirit descended at Pentecost - including Mary, who is mentioned by name in Acts 1:14, as depicted in this painting:

The elevation of respect for women occurred only in the wake of Mary being revered by Christians and their faith proliferating. This is no small thing, and, given how intricately God understands humanity, it is not kookiness to suggest that her having this effect was part of God's plan.

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As stated by William Lecky, the great historian from Dublin, in his 1865 book History of Rationalism: "No longer the slave or toy of man, no longer associated only with ideas of degradation and of sensuality, woman rose, in the person of the Virgin Mother, into a new sphere, and became the object of reverential homage, of which antiquity has no conception...a new kind of admiration was fostered."

Since I already quoted Carrie Gress in the first section of this post, I might as well quote her again: "If one were to ask where the radical notion that women are equal to men came from, where do you suppose we would find our answer? It didn't come from the Greeks: Aristotle and others called us 'deformed males.' It didn't come from Judaism: though given some status, a broad movement to promote the dignity of women never materialized, and the practice of polygamy remained. Asian religions, such as Buddhism and Hinduism, didn't start it. And it certainly hasn't come from Islam."

To which I would add: It also certainly hasn't come from the inherently cold shoulder of atheism.

Now, back to Gress: "It might seem that equality among women and men is obvious, a simple intuition any thinking person would have. But if so, why didn't any other religious movement see it? Because it was Mary who turned the sins of Eve upside down and allowed this now-commonplace notion to take root. Christianity, though largely abandoned by secular culture, remains the source for this profound insight."

This overall arc of history is so clear that, once it is pointed out, even devout atheists cannot deny it. What they do deny, however, is that there was any divine hand or divine will behind it. Instead they chalk it up to human superstition and gullibility having accidentally produced a good result.

Perhaps it would be easy to accept that contention if there were not so many credible, well-attested instances of Mary herself engaging with humanity and interceding on its behalf down through the centuries, but there are many such instances. There are so many that they're practically innumerable, and for the atheist contention to be true, literally every single one of them must be either a hoax, hallucination, or colossal misunderstanding. It takes only one being true to disprove the entire opposition.

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Forget atheism, however: More relevant to this series is that it takes only one instance of Marian intervention to wash away the foundation of Protestant arguments against Mariology, and since we children of the Reformation are supposed to be Christians first, not Protestants first, we should keep this in mind and take it very seriously.

To reject the Catholic (and Orthodox) view of Mary's role in salvation history is to:

Assert that every inexplicable healing involving water from Lourdes over the past 167 years has a purely material explanation that all of humanity is too dumb to figure out.

Deny that anything remarkable occurred in Fatima in 1917, Pontmain in 1871, Zeitoun in 1968... or in any of the other places where visions of Mary and wonders associated with her have been affirmed.

Claim that every individual who has ever reported an intercessory prayer to Mary being answered is either a loon or liar.

Irrationally deny that God could or would use Mary to draw people to him... even when a feminine figure is precisely what the task calls for.

See Donald Calloway's Christian testimony, one of the best ever, and pronounce him a fraud.

Look at the string of bewilderingly improbable events that have happened adjacent to the Black Madonna, and claim that crazy coincidence is the only non-crazy explanation.

Cite the warning in 1 John 4:1 as a reason to automatically believe appearances of Mary are actually demons pretending to be her... while simultaneously ignoring the instructions in 1 John 4:2 that tell us how to discern if an appearance is true.

Ignore that there has never, in all of history, been a single report of a Marian event having a less than stellar outcome - an already extraordinary fact that would be exponentially more extraordinary if any of those Marys were, as the "1 John 4:1 Onlyists" claim, demons in drag.

There is only so much denying that can happen before you have to ask yourself if the denying is being done by reflex rather than because of reflection.


Note #1: The prior posts in this series are as follows:
    Part I: Introduction
    Part II: The New Eve
    Part III: Genesis to Revelation
    Part III-b: The Ark of the New Covenant
    Part IV: Historical Perspective
    Part V: Perpetual Virginity
    Part VI: Prayer
    Part VI-b: Worship  

Note #2: The photo at the beginning of this post, and the one in the middle, were taken at St. Mary & St. Mina Coptic Orthdox Church in Clearwater, Florida.





Friday, August 15, 2025

V-J Day



80 years ago today, the bloodiest war in human history came to an end when Japan accepted the terms of the Potsdam Declaration. The announcement of Japan's surrender set off celebrations around the globe, including the one in Times Square during which this iconic picture was taken.

After six years, during which more than 60 million people from 27 different countries were killed, World War II was finally over. In the United States, August 15th came to be known as V-J Day, for Victory in Japan Day, since our European enemies had surrendered three months earlier.

Despite the fact that America was brought into the war when it was bombed by Japan, and despite the fact that atomic weapons were used to hasten its end, and despite enormous cultural differences, the two countries became strong and lasting friends whose alliance is now one of the more dependable on Earth.

That is a direct result of the respectful and helping way America dealt with Japan after the war ended: One of the reasons we are unique in world history is that as conflicts conclude, we always seek to befriend our antagonists and better their lot as well as our own. That fact needs to be burned into the hearts and minds of those who believe America is always the aggressor.

In my younger days, V-J Day was noted on calendars. Today it is not. This is not how it should be.

The Greatest Generation is rapidly passing to the other side of eternity's veil. It has now been more than a year since the last remaining survivor of the USS Arizona was laid to rest. Before its members are gone, may the rest of us thank them for the freedom they transmitted to us. And may we resolve that their sacrifice shall never be forgotten, and that it shall not have been made in vain.

Wednesday, July 30, 2025

Marian Musings, Part VI-b


My prior post in this series dove into the topic of praying to Mary. I took that dive with a bit of trepidation not because I was afraid of it, but because it's the kind of water that can sweep you off course when you're trying to keep the focus on her.

Once you start commenting both about her as a person and about prayer as a practice - especially if, like me, you're a "cradle Protestant" with an assumed audience of other cradle Protestants - you'll need to spend time delving into questions like what it means to "pray to" somebody and why we should talk to Mary when the Bible never says to. In other words, your eye gets taken off the ball.

Anyway, 14 days ago I cut myself off after handling the two questions I just mentioned, and now I'm back because of a nettlesome feeling I need to do more. Where those questions came from are others that are of sincere concern to Christians acting in good faith from Protestant and non-denominational settings, and good faith concerns deserve a good faith response.

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Last time around, in addition to explaining that the very way we Protestants tend to define "pray" deviates from how it has always been defined by Catholics and Orthodox - and even by the dictionary! - I wrote: "I understand the frequently voiced Protestant concern that some individuals might take Marian prayer too far and start treating her as being on par with or even higher than God. That concern is valid. However, any individual who does such a thing would be in clear violation of church teaching, so I do not share the frequently voiced Protestant opinion that Marian prayer is wrong."

Adjacent to the misunderstanding about the definition of "pray" is a misunderstanding about the definition of "worship," for the standard Protestant conception is more straitjacketed than the historical Catholic and Orthodox one. Having touched briefly on that in another post four years ago, I might as well just quote myself:

If you consult Catholic doctrine itself and hop a little further back in linguistic history, you will find that it explicitly defines how it regards Mary (versus other figures) using a Latin term plus two late middle English terms rooted in Greek.

Specifically, the highest honor is called latria and is "given to God alone" because he is "infinite" and "obviously He is our just judge." (emphasis mine, and please note that "judge" is singular)

Below latria is dulia, which is "honor given to all the good angels and to all the saints," while Mary is granted hyperdulia because she "is so highly blessed and endowed by God that she stands alone in her class." Although hyperdulia outranks dulia, it is indisputably less than latria. 

Fyi, those definitions came from here.

What I did not know then, but am unsurprised to have learned since, is that the Orthodox churches also have an explicit delineation between how they regard God and how they regard Mary. As with Catholics, the highest honor given by Orthodox is reserved for God alone and goes by the almost identical term latreia, which comes from Greek rather than Latin. Beneath that is lesser honor called proskynesis, which applies to both Mary and the other saints.

The former is more akin to interior adoration and the latter to outward presentation such as kneeling, and if you want definitions that are more clinical and crystal clear, you are bound for disappointment because Orthodoxy is esoteric to its core. You'll have to trust me when I say those clinical definitions don't exist, and we both have to trust the Orthodox when they say latreia is superior to proskynesis. As stated with delicious candor in a 2024 article on the web site of Saint John the Evangelist Orthodox Church in Beaver Falls, Pennsylvania: "In English, the two might seem identical; however, the language of the Church clearly differentiates them. And we must politely insist that those who critique Orthodoxy do the same."

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Seeing as how I have previously explained what I believe are sound reasons for, yes, venerating Mary, part of me feels like I'm in danger of being repetitive with this post. Nevertheless, I am keenly aware that lots of well-meaning Christians get hung up on the idea of worship being divisible, and that many of them, particularly among those raised in charismatic and evangelical settings, intend to extol God when they react skeptically to academic-sounding words from unfamiliar traditions. I know they desire to experience the fullness of Christ, and because I've come to believe that minimizing Mary serves as an impediment to that experience whereas embracing her serves as an aid, I think it's important for them to know what thoughts Catholic and Orthodox believers have voiced outside of tossing around terms like latria, latreia, dulia, hyperdulia, and proskynesis.

Though all Christians agree that the church (note the lower case "c") is the body of Christ, most many would fumble for words if asked to explain what that means. Not so for Catholic apologist Karlo Broussard, who in this 78-page pamphlet writes that "the saints participate in Christ's unique mediation because they're members of the mystical body of Christ...Christians are united with each other in the body by virtue of their union with the head, Jesus. This union with Christ enables the intercessory prayer of Christians to bring about effects in the lives of other members in the body. Viewed this way, we see that intercessory prayer of one member of Christ's mystical body for another no more takes away from Christ's unique mediation than my nervous system aiding my fingers to type takes away from the life that is uniquely mine."

Broussard continues: "The saints in heaven are still members of Christ's mystical body. We know this because Paul teaches in Romans 8:35 and 8:38 that death is among his list of things that cannot separate us from 'the love of God which is in Christ Jesus.' And the saints are not just average members of Christ's body; they are 'the spirits of just men made perfect' (Heb. 12:23). This matters because St. James tells us that 'the prayer of a righteous man avails much' (James 5:16). Since the saints in heaven are perfected in righteousness, their prayers will bear much fruit."

Later in the pamphlet he circles back: "Since the saints in heaven are still members of the body of Christ (death doesn't separate us from the love of God in Christ Jesus - see Rom. 8:35, 38), we can infer that we ought not reject their help that's offered through their intercessory prayer. We should employ it."

In The Faith Explained, Leo Trese illustrates: "When we pray to our Blessed Mother and to the saints in heaven (as we should) and beg their help, we know that whatever they may do for us will not be done of their own power, as though they were divine. Whatever they may do for us will be done for us by God, through their intercession. If we value the prayers of our friends here upon earth and feel that their prayers will help us, then surely we have the right to feel that the prayers of our friends in heaven will be even more powerful. The saints are God's chosen friends, heroes in the spiritual combat. It pleases God to encourage our imitation of them and to show his own love for them by dispensing his graces through their hands. Nor does the honor we show to the saints detract one whit from the honor that is due to God. The saints are God's masterpieces of grace. When we praise them, it is God - who made them what they are - whom we honor most. The highest honor that can be paid to an artist is to praise the work of his hands."

The web site of St. Mary & St. Moses Abbey, a monastery of the Coptic Orthodox Church located in southern Texas, sums things up by saying: "For two thousand years the Church has preserved the memory of the Virgin Mary as the prototype of all Christians...St. Mary is also our model because she was the first person to receive Jesus Christ...In obedience to God's clear intention, our Church honors St. Mary through icons, hymns, and special feast days. We entreat her as the human being who was most intimate to Christ on earth, to intercede with her Son on our behalf. We ask her, as the first believer and the mother of the Church, for guidance and protection. We venerate her, but do not worship her."

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Before I sign off, allow me to close by quoting Peter Kreeft from his 2017 book Catholics and Protestants: "Each of the Catholic teachings about Mary is centered on Christ, not on Mary. During her life on earth she was wholly relative to Him. She is His mother. When the servants at the wedding at Cana wondered what to do, she pointed to Him...That is precisely what makes her the greatest saint: she points most completely beyond herself to him. She is like the moon, reflecting only the sun's light (the Son's light). Her total subordination to Christ is her glory, and her glory is her total subordination to Christ."

Here's hoping that Part VII will see me back on track, focusing more on her.


Note #1: The prior posts in this series are as follows:
    Part I: Introduction
    Part II: The New Eve
    Part III: Genesis to Revelation
    Part III-b: The Ark of the New Covenant
    Part IV: Historical Perspective
    Part V: Perpetual Virginity
    Part VI: Prayer          

Note #2: The photo at the beginning of this post was taken at Our Lady of the Rosary Catholic Church in Land O Lakes, Florida.





Wednesday, July 16, 2025

Marian Musings, Part VI


There is no way to do a series about Mary without addressing the topic of praying to her, so we might as well do that now.

Based on my own experiences interacting with fellow Protestants and non-denominationals (and fyi, for the rest of today's post, the word "Protestant" will be used to include both groups) I think it is crucially important to clear the air of pre-conceived notions. A major one involves what is even meant by the word "pray."

Most of us from Protestant circles are conditioned to think that prayer automatically means asking a deity for something. But we are mistaken. Historically it merely means to ask. Even today, after eons of word evolution and devolution, Merriam-Webster gives two definitions for the intransitive verb "pray" and mentions God in the second one:

1:  to make a request in a humble manner
2: to address God or a god with adoration, confession, supplication, or thanksgiving

It is a simple fact that Catholics and Orthodox have always used the word according to its original - and as I just pointed out, still existing - definition. Protestants use it differently, and act as if their approach should be the default even though they are: 1] the new Christians on the block, 2] a minority of Christians, and 3] a minuscule minority if you group us according to our specific denominations and churches rather than lumping us all together. 

In light of this, it seems that the main question is whether humans in Heaven are tuned in to what we do on Earth. Before wading into those waters, however, I need to stress that:

1] Both Catholics and Orthodox allow, but do not require, prayers to Mary - and always have.

2] Neither Catholics nor Orthodox believe Mary can provide salvation, or that she can act independently of God's perfect will.

3] Their petitions to her are intercessory, meaning they revolve around asking her to pray for them. It's notable that the only thing Catholics ask of Mary in the most famous Marian prayer of all, the Hail Mary, is that she "pray for us sinners, now and in the hour of our death."

4] Christianity is not a modern faith - like our Orthodox brothers and sisters are fond of saying, it's an ancient one - and therefore modern conceptions must meet an enormous burden of proof before they can be considered to trump ancient ones.

5] And finally: Since all Christians worth their salt believe God is unchanging, it stands to reason that the Christian faith should also be unchanging, or at least largely so, despite the inevitability of some superficial variations in how it is approached.

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So, now let's wade into the question of whether human souls in the supernatural world are able to see and hear what is happening here in the material world.

For the record, I instinctively believe they can, and I suspect most people's instincts align with mine where this is concerned. That doesn't prove the instinct is correct, of course, but instinct and intuition cannot be dismissed simply because they're not tangible.

Consider a corollary: Some Christians believe animals lack souls and thus pets don't go to Heaven, and they base their belief on the fact the Bible doesn't say animals have souls... Meanwhile, other Christians have a powerful intuition that animals do have souls and pets do go to Heaven, and they are entirely correct to point out that the Bible does not tell us animals don't have souls... And if we are being honest with ourselves, we should admit that we don't know which group is right. The Bible is silent about this subject, and silence about a subject does not make an argument either for it or against it.

But that corollary, while valid, barely holds a candle to the matter at hand because the Bible does serve up evidence that humans in the supernatural world can see and hear beyond it. It does this not least when the Book of Hebrews says "we are surrounded by so great a cloud of witnesses" (12:1) who were previously martyred (11:37). That those witnesses are martyrs means they are humans who were killed while living on Earth, and are, thus, no longer on Earth.

In Luke 16, when Jesus tells of the rich man asking Abraham (deceased) to send Lazarus (also deceased) to warn his relatives what will happen if they don't change their ways, Jesus says Abraham declined not because Lazarus was unable to deliver the warning but because he knew the relatives wouldn't believe the warning.

Plus, we know it's possible to communicate with the deceased because Saul does precisely that when he goes to Endor (1 Samuel 28:7-20).

So the real question is not whether it can be done, but whether it should be done; and if it can, what are the guardrails?

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I have seen plenty of Catholics say that asking Mary (or anyone else in Heaven) to pray for you is, at worst, no different than asking your friends to pray for you... and at best, much better than having your friends pray for you, as the holiness of those up there exceeds that of anyone down here.

In response, I have seen many Protestants insist it's not that simple and accuse said Catholics of concocting an excuse to justify their priors.

In response to which, said Catholics retort that it is that simple and accuse said Protestants of ignoring Scripture as well as tradition in order to justify their priors.

And any Orthodox who happen to be watching usually just shake their heads at how much energy is being wasted by quarreling. Occasionally, however, they do weigh in and make it clear that they think said Protestants are wrong.

As is usually the case, and as you can tell from my earlier remark about what I "instinctively believe," I strongly suspect Catholics and Orthodox are correct about this topic. I think it is as simple as said Catholics make it out to be: If people in Heaven are able to hear us pray to them (remember, it simply means ask) and are able to in turn appeal to God on our behalf, then we may say such prayers if we choose.

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I understand the frequently voiced Protestant concern that some individuals might take Marian prayer too far and start treating her as being on par with or even higher than God. That concern is valid. However, any individual who does such a thing would be in clear violation of church teaching, so I do not share the frequently voiced Protestant opinion that Marian prayer is wrong.

The Protestant impulse to defer to what Scripture affirms is admirable in most respects but flawed in others - and becomes critically flawed when people cross the line by citing it as a reason to reject anything they don't see unambiguously affirmed in Scripture.

Many of my fellow Protestants correctly observe that the Bible does not show people on Earth praying to Mary, then they incorrectly assume that this in and of itself stands as a testament against the practice. Mary was by all appearances still living when the New Testament was written, so of course its authors didn't talk about sending heavenward prayers to her.

The same holds true for prayers to other believers who were martyred for their faith or died after experiencing persecution. Those people (whom Catholics and Orthodox refer to as the communion of saints) would all need to die before they could be prayed to, and a large number of them would need to have been dead for a long time before we could expect prayers to them to become widely attested in print.

Yet even still, the New Testament does touch on the topic:

In several places Revelation refers to "elders" in Heaven and it is widely accepted that this refers to humans, not angels, since the Greek word translated as elders (presbuteroi) is never known to have been applied to non-humans. Revelation 5:8 says these elders "fell down before the Lamb, each holding a harp, and golden bowls full of incense, which are the prayers of the saints" - which certainly seems to show heavenly humans bringing petitions to God on behalf of others, especially when you consider that in the New Testament "saints" generally refers to all believers.

Further, Revelation 6:9-11 depicts humans in Heaven being acutely aware of what is happening on Earth and appealing to God about it.

Part of me feels like I should continue, but a bigger part of me knows I have already gone on long enough for today. Until next time, take care. 


Note #1: The prior posts in this series are as follows:
    Part I: Introduction
    Part II: The New Eve
    Part III: Genesis to Revelation
    Part III-b: The Ark of the New Covenant
    Part IV: Historical Perspective
    Part V: Perpetual Virginity            

Note #2: The photo at the beginning of this post was taken at Our Lady of the Rosary Catholic Church in Land O Lakes, Florida.





Friday, July 4, 2025

Mankind's Greatest Hour


Today, as we fire up our grills and crack open our beverages, let us remember why we even have a July 4th holiday: To commemorate the greatest act of shared, selfless courage the world has ever seen.

Everybody should know that Thomas Jefferson authored the Declaration of Independence. Most people know the names of a handful of the 56 men who signed it, such as John Hancock, Benjamin Franklin, and of course Jefferson himself. But few people seem to realize that when those men signed their names, they were committing what was considered an act of treason against the British crown, punishable by death.

Those men were property owners who were successful in their lives and businesses. Their lives were comfortable and they stood to lose everything they had on Earth, incuding their lives, by signing the Declaration. Yet they chose to sign it anyway, because they knew that casting off the crown and forming a new government based on individual liberty was the correct course of action to take at their moment in time. They knew it was the correct course of action not only for themselves and their own descendants, but for all of humanity. And here is what happened to some of those men after they signed the Declaration:

Five of them became prisoners of war.

Nearly one-sixth of them died before the war ended.

British forces burned, and/or looted, the homes and properties of nearly one-third of them.

When the British did that to the property of William Floyd, he and his family fled and spent the next seven years living as refugees without income. His wife died two years before the war ended.

After being forced into the wilderness by British forces, John Hart struggled to make his way home. When he finally got there, he found that his wife was dead and his 13 children were missing. He died without ever seeing them again.

Richard Stockton was dragged from his bed and sent to prison while his property was ravaged. From the day of his release from prison until the day he died, he had to rely on charity from others to feed his family.

Francis Lewis’s wife was imprisoned and beaten. Meanwhile, his wealth was plundered. His last years were spent as a widower living in poverty.

Thomas Nelson Jr.’s home was captured and occupied by British General Cornwallis, who used it as what we would now call an operations center. Therefore, Nelson ordered his troops to destroy his own home with cannon fire during the Battle of Yorktown. To assist in funding the war, he used his own credit to borrow two million dollars, which would equal nearly 74 million in today's dollars. Repaying that debt bankrupted him, and when he died he was buried in an unmarked grave.

It is a safe bet that fewer than one percent of our citizens have ever heard of these people, much less know anything about the devastating sacrifices they made so that future generations could have the freedom necessary to build the kind of upward, progressing, opportunity-rich society we would come to take for granted.

It is also a safe bet that most people today fail to see what should be obvious: That nobody takes the kind of peril-fraught step America's Founders took unless they know they are serving something much greater than themselves by taking it. The Founding Fathers saw liberty as being necessary not so that people could act with libertine abandon, but so that people could be free to do what is right. This is abundantly clear to anybody who has taken the time to study their words and actions in context.

Some people overstate the case that the Founders were uniformly Christian, seeing as how only one (John Witherspoon) was a clergyman and at least one (Thomas Paine) was openly Deist and some (Benjamin Franklin comes immediately to mind) expressed uncertainty about the divinity of Jesus. What is not an overstatement, however, is that none of them were atheist, all of them affirmed the existence of a single God, and it was through this lens --  and this lens alone -- that they viewed freedom as being an "inalienable" right belonging to all human beings. This is a lesson which people in the twenty-first century must relearn in order for freedom to survive.

The Founding Fathers bequeathed to us a wonderful gift called America, and we owe it to our children to make sure we don’t allow that gift to be destroyed. We should never hear the words “Fourth of July” without feeling a skip in our heart and a tear in our eye.


Much thanks to Jeff Jacoby, the late Paul Harvey, and all the others who have written and spoken about the fates of the signers, to keep their story alive. 

Tuesday, July 1, 2025

Marian Musings, Part V



Some people are caught off guard to learn that not only does devotion to Mary go back to before there was any separation in the Christian Church, but so too does belief that she remained virgin throughout her life.

In his 2007 book The Real Mary, Scot McKnight (a Protestant) observes that "with very few exceptions, all Christians from the second or third century onward believed that Mary was perpetually virginal...This surprises many of us. What may surprise us even more is that three of the most significant Protestant leaders - Martin Luther, John Calvin, and John Wesley - who in their own way were also very critical of what Catholics believed about Mary, each believed in Mary's perpetual virginity."

It's noteworthy that we don't see opposition to that until recent centuries.

When it comes to the early Church, we know which beliefs were contested and what heresies arose precisely because they generated debate. That was documented through letters and councils as the Church hammered them out and ultimately took a position on what was true, versus what was false, versus what was unknowable. When it comes to the perpetual virginity of Christ's mother, we see none of that.

People back then were far from prude, expected husbands and wives to have lots of kids, and knew Mary was married... so it seems worthwhile to ask why the belief in her remaining forever virgin became so ubiquitous, does it not?

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When the angel Gabriel visited Mary to inform her of God's plan for virginal conception, she and Joseph were already betrothed. Many today take that to mean they were engaged, but it actually means more: Betrothal effectively meant a couple was married, albeit with the woman still residing in her father's house while the man finished building/establishing their own.

There was no ending a betrothal the way we might break off an engagement if we get cold feet. Ending a betrothal required a divorce, which was scandalous and hard to come by. This explains why, upon hearing Mary was "with child," Joseph "resolved to divorce her" and needed his own visit from an angel to change his mind by assuring him "that which is conceived in her is from the Holy Spirit" (Matthew 1:18-20).

Mary's reaction is even more telling than Joseph's. When a young woman who is already essentially married is told "you have found favor with God" and "will conceive in your womb and bear a son," it seems odd for her to respond by asking "how" rather than "when," yet that is exactly what Mary did. According to Luke 1:34 she "said to the angel, 'How will this be, since I am a virgin?'" That statement makes no sense unless she was planning to always be one.

Modern Westerners are inclined to wonder why two humans would marry while planning to forego sex, and men are particularly curious why Joseph would take a bride under circumstances that would, at least ostensibly, consign him to an entire lifetime without sex. But Mary and Joseph obviously weren't your normal couple - seeing as how they were both addressed by angels, and she was chosen to bear and nurture God in human form, and he was charged with protecting God in human form along with God's mother - so should we really be surprised by the thought of them looking at things from different perspectives than us?

In any event, chastity vows, including among spouses, were not unheard of. The Torah itself uses the phrases "afflict yourselves" (Leviticus 16:29) and "afflict herself" (Numbers 30:13) in ways that are widely acknowledged as referring to adults voluntarily vowing to abstain from sex. In On the Contemplative Life, Philo of Alexandria (circa 20 B.C. to 50 A.D.) wrote of a contemporaneous sect called the Therapeutae whose members swore themselves to celibacy. These kinds of arrangements were not normal, but neither were they absent.

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The argument given most often and most persuasively for rejecting the doctrine of Mary's perpetual virginity is the fact that the Bible makes reference to Jesus having brothers and sisters. Matthew 13:55 even names said brothers: James, Joseph, Simon, and Judas.

While that seems compelling at first glance, let's face it: If it actually was compelling, it would not have sat there for more than 15 centuries with nobody bothering to use it as an argument against the doctrine. Nevertheless, sit there it did. Unused. And that long, enduring silence ought to make today's critics think twice.

Though we automatically think of the words "brothers" and "sisters" as meaning biological siblings, ancient Hebrews did not, for they also used those words to identify relatives who were not siblings. This was especially true for relatives you and I would call cousins, as their language and culture had no word for cousin.

We know Jesus and John the Baptist were cousins not because the Bible calls them that, but because we connect the dots when Gabriel refers to Elizabeth (John's mother) as Mary's "relative." From that, we intuit that Jesus and John must have been cousins to one degree or another.

Likewise, we know Abram and Lot were uncle and nephew because Genesis 14:12 says Lot was "the son of Abram's brother." However, two verses later, when Abram gets news of Lot's capture in Genesis 14:14, the Hebrew word for brother (ach) is used to describe their relationship to one another. Many modern English translations tidy the verse up for us by substituting other words - e.g., the NLT uses "nephew" and the ESV "kinsman" - but it cannot be stressed enough that the translators made that decision not because of what 14:14 says, but because of the context clue provided in 14:12.

There are plenty other examples of this sort of thing in the Bible. Including some in which there is no blood whatsoever between between the people (e.g., David called Jonathan "my brother") and some in which the familial titles are something other than sibling (e.g., your grandfather, great-grandfather, etc. would each be called your "father," and collectively called your "fathers," since there was no designated word for paternal predecessors more than a generation removed).

But I digress, for what I alluded to five paragraphs above is strong enough on its own. Church leaders down through history were no fools, and many of them were intellectual and philosophical titans. They all saw the words "brothers" and "sisters" in print, describing peoples' linkage to Jesus, yet they all believed his mother was perpetually virgin and never bore another child. None of them cited the words "brothers" and "sisters" as a reason to second-guess her perpetual virginity. The only explanation for this is that they knew those words were not referring to biological siblings - just like you and I know the singers Bill Medley and Bobby Hatfield weren't siblings even though everyone calls them the Righteous Brothers.

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The doctrine of Mary's perpetual virginity has been around as far back as we can tell, whereas opposition to it did not begin until more than three-fourths of the way into Christian history.

The doctrine survived intact on both sides of a schism in the fifth century, and intact again on both sides of another schism in the eleventh, and, as I showed in Part IV of this series, it remained a core belief of some Protestant Reformers even into the eighteenth century - which, if you're counting, was eighty-five percent of the way into Christian history.

Her perpetual virginity is the official belief of all Catholics, all Orthodox, and some Protestants. If it was good enough for Wesley, it ought to be good enough for all non-Cartholic, non-Orthodox Christians to consider without rejecting it out of hand.

And frankly, when the full and combined weight of history, logic, and Scripture are taken into account, the arguments against it are genuinely weak.


Note #1: The prior posts in this series are as follows:
    Part I: Introduction
    Part II: The New Eve
    Part III: Genesis to Revelation
    Part III-b: The Ark of the New Covenant
    Part IV: Historical Perspective              

Note #2: The photo at the beginning of this post was taken at Notre-Dame de la Garde in Marseilles, France. Courtesy of Diane Kelly.